In this episode of Intimacy Play, Mikaela is joined by Paulita Pappel, a producer, performer & porn director. Paulita discusses her road to becoming an adult filmmaker, her projects in the industry, and how she fights stereotypes of the porn industry through her work.
Learn more about Paulita:
- Paulita’s Instagram
- Paulita’s Website
- Lustery’s Website
- Hardwerk’s Website
- Porn Film Festival’s Instagram Page
From literature to adult performance
Paulita studied literature in Spain, but wasn’t enjoying it. She then moved to Berlin, where she met people who were making porn, no-budget films, and art projects which really sparked her creativity. As a result of getting involved with these projects, Paulita became an adult performer.
Accepting her sexuality
Paulita recognizes that she is pansexual, meaning she is attracted to people, no matter what their gender identity is. However, before accepting her sexuality, she endured a lot of pain, rejection, and self-doubt. But she always felt different and was constantly exploring sexual pleasures.
Lustery.com – the background and purpose
Paulita is the co-founder of Lustery, a platform in which couples can film their sex lives behind closed doors and share their most intimate and romantic moments with the community. The idea behind Lustery comes from a desire to show what real and natural sex looks like. But it also helps people to get an insight into their relationship while exploring pleasure, kinks, and turn-ons.
Misconceptions about Gang Bang Porn and Paulita’s vision for it
Paulita thinks that people see “gang bang porn” as a form of violence where several men take advantage of a woman. But Paulita views this as the woman being the “centre of attention”, and the men around her are satisfying her sexual desires and fantasies.
How does Paulita keep her relationship open, exciting, and intimate?
Paulita likes to keep things fresh and try new things. It’s also important to maintain sexual energy with your partner without necessarily having physical sex.
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